'What Happens When I'm Gone?' Plan

I'm [Your Age] and I'm the primary caregiver for [Who You Care For]. I need to plan for what happens if I get sick, or when I die. I've been avoiding this. Please help me start, gently. 1. Give me the list of what a plan like this needs to cover, in plain language, grouped into: tomorrow (if I'm in the hospital next week), next year, and after I'm gone. 2. For each item, tell me whether it's something I can write down myself, something that needs a professional (and which kind), or something that needs a conversation with a specific person. 3. Tell me the one or two things to do first, that would make the biggest difference if something happened soon. 4. Give me a short list of questions to bring to [Who You'll Ask]. Don't give me legal or financial advice. Help me know what to ask for.