Medications When Memory Fails

My [Relationship] [Initials] ([Their Diagnosis]) takes [Medications And Times]. What's going wrong: [What's Going Wrong]. Who's around each day: [Who's Around Each Day]. They live [Where They Live]. Help me: 1) design a medication system that works even on a bad memory day — pill organizer versus pharmacy blister packs versus a locked dispenser — and tell me which fits our situation and roughly what each costs, 2) tell me how to handle the 'I already took it' / 'I don't take pills' fight without arguing, 3) give me the questions to ask the pharmacist: which of these can be combined, timed with meals, or dropped, and whether any are on the list of medications that make confusion worse in older adults, 4) write a one-page med sheet for the fridge and for the ER, 5) tell me the signs of a missed dose or a double dose that mean call the doctor. Not medical advice — questions for the pharmacist, not answers from you.