Make the Visit Go Well

[Who's Visiting] is coming to see my [Relationship] [Initials] ([Their Diagnosis], [Roughly What Stage]) on [When]. Last time: [What Happened Last Visit]. What [Initials] is like now on a typical day: [What They're Like Now]. What still works — music, photos, topics, food: [What Still Works]. Help me write something I can send [Who's Visiting] beforehand: 1) what to expect, honestly, in five plain sentences, 2) how to greet them and what to do if they don't recognize you — with the exact words, 3) five things to do together that work, and three that don't, 4) what NOT to say: no quizzing ('do you remember me?'), no correcting, no 'we talked about this', 5) how to leave without a scene, and what to say to themselves in the car afterward. Kind to the visitor too — they're grieving, they just don't know it yet.